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Comment on Quadruple search today: “how to cross examine a sociopath” by joanie mcdaniel

joanie mcdaniel — Mon, 13 May 2013 10:40:23 +0000

I have been a guardian for six years for my sister who is a sociopath and as hostile as can be. She called the abuse hotline and without any evidence, I am now in a major legal battle based on her lies. We will most likely lose our home and retirement as my sister continues to talk and lie about things that never happened. Everyone believes her and treats me as if I am the person she describes. It’s been a horrific expensive legal battle and I am now very afraid of her. The lawyers have the fees over one hundred thousand dollars on things they cannot present a

Comment on To those who claim psychopath is simply a term of denigration for jerks, read this search: son blackmailing mom into sex by md

md — Thu, 09 May 2013 17:53:57 +0000

You know, my instincts say to expose it as well. Ignorantly, because of his recent arrest and the no contact order from it, I thought maybe he knew it would be stupid to mess with me. However, I believe the quiet (hasn’t tried family court moves) is only him setting his stage as I learned and now know, he had done so well behind my back, for no reason at all. So I believe if I hold onto it, and wait until he drops a bomb, I play into whatever lies he is creating. I do not have a gun. However, I moved states away , bought a new car and took as many measures as I could to stay hidden. I do not pretend to tell myself he doesn’t know where I am (family) if he wanted to. But I feel somewhat safer, for now, with the space between us. I know whatever ways he’s planning to punish me, will involve court. So my instincts tell me to expose all I can verifiable prove BEFORE he takes a shot at me through court. The things I do have on him will, or should (don’t know how he could get out of it but…I know enough to not assume he can’t the way the rest of us couldn’t) cause him to lose his business. Which will push him over….yet maybe I just assume that will. Do they really ever think they can’t just start over? However, he is very image protective and his business is a huge part of that. I’m trying to just do my best to not roll over for him and to protect my kids.

Comment on To those who claim psychopath is simply a term of denigration for jerks, read this search: son blackmailing mom into sex by pathwhisperer

pathwhisperer — Thu, 09 May 2013 16:11:21 +0000

My instincts say expose it all. However they often plan on their exploits not being believed by third parties (a gaslighting harassment is only the beginning of this strategy), so truthful accusations can come across as self-impeaching. Do you have a concealed carry permit? Does the situation rise to that necessity? Would you be in more danger releasing the info or not releasing the info — once the info is released you are no longer a danger of possibility releasing info, but you may have to deal with anger. However we can’t let them win. I’m afraid I’m not much help, just offering more questions.

Comment on To those who claim psychopath is simply a term of denigration for jerks, read this search: son blackmailing mom into sex by md

md — Thu, 09 May 2013 07:31:04 +0000

So much all on this site makes me shudder. I am currently in the aftermath of a relation s hip with one of these awful things. I also have children with him and this is the part that scares me most. 6months ago, he was arrested for felony domestic violence. I hope I am not let down by the state in this case. I have other incriminating evidence against him. I’ve often wondered if it’s better I expose it or if it would only put me in danger. Sometimes I think he expects me to not expose it knowing that most of us do not like to cause anyone trouble. Other times I t think I should expose it because I am sure he is planning some horrifying defense over his actions and if I hold back, I will play into whatever story he will try to create. Any opinions?

Comment on From Country of Liars: Character Assassination by Blacksheep

Blacksheep — Tue, 07 May 2013 19:25:58 +0000

Becca,

I know how hard it is to walk on egg shells around everyone, especially family and friends. If you can just keep your wits about you and learn to get fast on your feet and confront this ex of yours in front of others while he’s spreading his trash talk he’ll begin to back off. Or he’ll get even more secretive about his trash talk campaign against you.

If you can get even ONE thing in writing that he’s spread about you that is untrue, a face book post, an email, or one person to give a deposition or written signed notarized statement to an attorney on the trash he’s talking then do it and take him to court! Deformation of character in written form can and should be pursued in a court of law.

I personally have two 2 inch thick three ring notebooks full of such items a sibling has posted/sent. I have made copies of all and turned them over to my attorney and we are heading to court soon on this one particular issue. there are several more court issues also with this sibling of mine.

Becca, learn from this experience even though it’s a bad one, just learn something from it. What I’ve learned is this, the smeller be the feller. He who wags and points fingers at others has something to hide. The one who smells up the gathering with trash talk on others doesn’t want everyone to notice what they are doing or have been doing. When they are talking YOU be watching them. Eventually, you’ll see what he has to hide that he doesn’t want others to notice or find out about. Jealousy may be the cause but I suspect it’s something much more damning than simple jealousy.

Blacksheep

Comment on They no longer bother to hide it, do they? by s

Fri, 03 May 2013 18:09:27 +0000

I married a Bernie Madoff type who runs a huge part of huge investment co. The chaos I endured,almost unbearable,I somehow have lived climbing out of black hole of chaos. He “won” all the millions in our court,leaving me in debt. after 20 years of marriage Im dumbfounded that in Mass. this can actually happen,where courts are supposed to be fairer

Comment on Quadruple search today: “how to cross examine a sociopath” by Tara Comin

Tara Comin — Fri, 03 May 2013 14:07:13 +0000

I didn’t have a chance to read the comments before mine, but the article is fascinating… This months Psychology Today has focused on sociopaths…three years ago I was married to one and still struggle with his lack of “human emotions”. On one hand I can admire their ability to be so cunning and then on the other hand surprised and shocked at the sharpness and inhuman attitudes. Perhaps you can elaborate more on how to handle this sort in family court….

Comment on A search today: “i am the target of a sociopathic bully. what do i do?” by jayja

jayja — Thu, 25 Apr 2013 23:30:33 +0000

My last employment was over ten years. I believe the vice President is a Sociopath. I was conned from day one. He pushed all of his bad deals on to me and destroying me behind my back. He knew how to destroy.For over nine years I saw him as a friend. I always treated him well and his family. It . I never new what a Sociopath was or any of the hatefull things about them. All the books I have read is true. The stalking, lieing, tricking, stealing, gaslighting, more. Once he was done with me, I was pushed out of the company. I lost everything. He did this to make himself feel better. Nothing but hate and selfness. It has been over four years since then and I still have trubble getting through the day. I just never knew this kind of person was in the world.

Comment on If you folks aren’t going to send money, then you need to leave more comments. I NEED MORE COMMENTS!! by Lady Andrea

Lady Andrea — Wed, 10 Apr 2013 09:31:13 +0000

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Comment on If you folks aren’t going to send money, then you need to leave more comments. I NEED MORE COMMENTS!! by pathwhisperer

pathwhisperer — Tue, 09 Apr 2013 14:09:09 +0000

Very funny. LOL. PW